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Sex Addiction and Family Rules:
I encourage you to listen to this audio file of Julian, on this conference call he really took us to some deep places.
If you are a sex addict, I guarantee that you have a very specific secondary addiction.
All sex addicts have it. It goes hand in hand with sex addiction:
When we focus our lives on pleasure, we measure life’s values by the amount of pleasure we can get. We become seekers of two things. First, we seek the trance that raw pleasure brings. Second, we seek to avoid the anxieties and pains– what Shakespeare’s Hamlet called the “slings and arrows” –of life avoidance quickly becomes te primary organizing strategy for how we deal with life. Struggling with life’s difficulties becomes meaningless for the pleasure-centered individual unless the end product is more pleasure. Struggle itself is seen as a failure, a sign that we are inadequate, and this only intensifies our search for more pleasure.